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GENDER
IDENTITY, RE TRANSVESTITES & TRANSSEXUALS:
These gender problems and gender identities can be full-time
or part-time, which can also encompass a broad spectrum scale. On one end of the scale is firmly and
clearly Transvestism - the desire to 'temporarily' dress in opposite gender often in private (for relaxation
or sexual urges), but not have opposing hormones then genital or other surgery. One the other end of the scale
is Transsexualism - the desire to 'permanently' change gender role publically, plus have hormones, then irreversible
breast/chest, genital and other surgery. Sometimes a true feeling Transsexual may delay the path towards surgery
due to being married, or having children, or their job. They may sometimes seemingly become a part-time TV or part-time
TS.
Male to Female Transvestites:
Although there are a few female to male, most TVs
are male to female, so I will concentrate here on those. Transvestism is the desire to 'sometimes' dress in
opposite gender often in private, but not have opposing hormones then genital or other surgery. Some urges to dress
are connected to feelings such as relaxation, other urges are connected to sexual and/or kinky gratification and/or arousal.
Most do not have female hormones, yet some do via the internet paying privately. Most do not have electrolysis to remove
facial hair, yet some do. Most do not have breast implants, yet some do. Transvestites can be straight and
attracted to women, or gay or bisexual.
Totally different are Female Impersonators, who can be straight
or gay or bisexual and are dressing that way purely as a part-time or full-time paid profession. Totally different are
Drag Queens, who are usually gay and are dressing that way purely as an occassional leisure activity.
Transvestites - Coping with the Present and Future:
I have helped Transvestites clients
work out if, when and how to tell their present partners, parents, family, friends, work colleagues, employers, etc. I also
help them to accept, cope with and balance the two sides of their personality, emotions and needs.
Transvestites
- Confidentiality and Putting You at Ease:
Full confidentiality is assured at all times and you do not have
to wait in a shared waiting room. To put you completely at ease, you can be booked in as the last client of the
day, on Tuesdays till Fridays at 7:30pm, or Saturdays at 2:30pm. There is a private toilet with mirror if you wish
to change, if you feel more at ease speaking in your gender of choice.
Male to Female Transsexuals:
They often go through an identity change gradually over 2 or more years, by first taking female hormones, then removing
their facial and body hair via Needle Electrolysis or Laser Electrolysis, starting to dress, act and live part-time as
a woman. Under the rules for surgery the TS must fulfill the 'real life test' of living full-time
and working as a woman for at least 2 years. During this real life experience time any doubts about future identity
and future surgery are fully aired and answered. The operation(s) may consist of one or more of: penis and testicle
removal, vaginal, clitoris, shorter urethra and labia creation, adam's apple reduction, breast implants.
Some decide to also have facial surgery such as nose reduction/reshape, chin/jaw reshape, forehead reshape, hair transplant,
facelift, etc. In all cases Transsexuals should avoid self-adminstering female hormones by purchasing female
hormones on the internet, as the quality or source cannot be guaranteed and there would by no Psychiatrist or GP overseeing
the dosage and side efects. Sometimes some Transvestites self purchase these female hormones, when they realise it would
be unlikely that a Psychiatrist or GP would prescribe them as they are not true Transsexuals. I work within the
international 'Harry Benjamin criteria' re Transsexuals who are later consdering Gender Reassignment Surgery
(GRS).
Female to Male Transsexuals:
They often go through an identity change gradually
over 2 or more years, by first taking male hormones, then sharply increasing their facial and body hair, building
up muscle and losing fat, starting to dress, act and live part-time as a man. Under the rules for surgery the TS must fulfill
the 'real life test' of living full-time and working as a man for at least 2 years. During this real life experience
time any doubts about future identity and future surgery are fully aired and answered. The operation(s) may consist of one
or more of: breast and aerola removal, hysterectomy, clitoris enlargement, longer urethra with penis and
testicle creation. Some decide to also have facial surgery such as chin/jaw reshape,etc. In all cases Transsexuals should
avoid self-adminstering male hormones by purchasing male hormones on the internet, as the quality or source cannot be guaranteed
and there would by no Psychiatrist or GP overseeing the dosage and side efects. Sometimes some Transvestites self purchase
these male hormones, when they realise it would be unlikely that a Psychiatrist or GP would prescribe them as they are not
true Transsexuals. I work within the international 'Harry Benjamin criteria' re Transsexuals who are later consdering
Gender Reassignment Surgery (GRS).
Transsexuals - Coping with the Present and Future:
I
have helped Transsexual clients work out when and how to tell their present partners, parents, family, friends, work colleagues,
employers, etc. I also help them to inform and change their Driving Licence, GP Record, Passport, National Insurance
and Tax. After they have had irreversible surgery and divorced their present partner, they can apply to have a new Birth
Certificate and the old one is sealed.
Transsexuals - Confidentiality and Putting You at Ease:
Full confidentiality is assured at all times and you do not have to wait in a shared waiting room. To put you completely
at ease, you can be booked in as the last client of the day, on Tuesdays till Fridays at 7:30pm, or Saturdays at 2:30pm. There
is a private toilet with mirror if you wish to change, if you feel more at ease speaking in your gender of choice.
My Past Satisfied Clients:
I have helped many clients to live more positive, happier lives,
using Hypnotherapy (inc NLP) and Counselling (inc NLP, Person Centered, CBT & SFBT). Many satisfied clients have
travelled from South Yorkshire, within Barnsley, Rotherham, Sheffield, Doncaster. Other happy clients have travelled from
West Yorkshire, within Wakefield, Leeds, Pontefract, Dewsbury, Huddersfield, Bradford.
Warm Regards, Jeana.
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